Alpha Male Unleashed

The most important thing to consider when mastering the art of picking up women is to see yourself as women would see you in a social setting.  When you are out on the town looking to meet a pretty girl, think about yourself from her perspective.  Do you look like a happy guy?  Do you look nice or do you look like a slob?  Do you tip well? Are you rude to the folks waiting on you?  The way you present yourself, even before you are introduced to a woman of interest can make all the difference in the world as to whether or not you spend next Saturday at home with a bucket of chicken, or having dinner with a woman you find interesting.

One of the first things a person notices about another person is their smile.  Use it!  A smile is much more attractive than a frown or a brooding grimace.  It is a fact, that happy men attract the ladies.  A killer smile from a gentleman turns many women into a pool of hopeful giddiness.  A smile also shows confidence, and believe me when I say, women find confidence extremely sexy.  If you are out and having a good time, then show it!  More likely than not, there will be a pretty lady who wants to know why you are having so much fun, and may want to join in.       (Continued)

What do you do when you see an attractive woman? Do you go up to her and start a conversation? Or do you silently make up an excuse before going back to whatever it was you were doing before you noticed her? If this is the case then you are like most guys out there, intimidated by pretty women.

Well, at least you’re not alone. But, of course, as with most things, it doesn’t have to be that way. You cannot only change your current attitude about women (that they are intimidating) you can change your current behavior (avoiding the approach). Instead of these old ways of doing things you can believe in yourself and approach beautiful women with confidence.       (Continued)

OK, so you are at a good place in your career, financially stable, and have friends and an active social life.  You know something is missing, and it is a relationship.  Obviously, you have to meet someone in order to have a relationship.  Where can I meet women? You ask.  There is no correct answer to this question, but I can give you some ideas, and try to point you in the right direction.  You don’t have to make a colossal effort, but you still need to make an effort if a relationship is something that you really want in your life.  Here are a few pointers on how to meet interesting women.

Throw a party!  Parties are a great way to meet new people.  Invite your friends of course, but ask them to bring people you have never met, or you can throw a singles party.  A singles party is when you invite you single friends, and have them bring a friend who is also single.  That way, you end up at party with a lot of single people, that you have a connection to if you have a mutual friend.  This is a low pressure situation, that has the potential to put a really great person in your path.  Round up your single friends, and have them do the same, and see what happens!     (Continued)

Either your body language can attract a woman or it can completely ruin any chances you have with her.  That’s why you need to start paying attention to what your body is doing while you are trying to attract the ladies.

Too much attention to your body language can be a disaster.  You can appear to be a robot if you try too hard.  That’s why you have to strike the perfect balance.  You should be aware of your movements, but nobody should know that you are trying.  It should appear as natural as possible.  Let’s go through each of the body parts that are involved in body language, and discuss how you can control them for your own good.       (Continued)

Three Distinctions About Alpha Males

An alpha male is less a person than it is a skillful tactician. It is the sum total of all the thoughts, behaviors, and reactions that a man does to produce a certain reaction in other men, and in women (and even in dogs). These thoughts and behaviors come naturally to men who are born confident. In almost any social situation, from the time of childhood, we see these natural leaders develop. What it is that determines who is a natural leader and who is a natural follower, I don’t know.

We don’t need to know why they developed that way naturally because we can now develop ourselves. We no longer have to rely on nature to shape our level of social dominance because we can, with a little work, structure those levels they way we want. This is achieved by assuming the traits that those men naturally display.       (Continued)

Despite the name, there is usually more than one alpha male in a normal situation. During social interactions there are likely to be some alphas and some guys who are not alphas. If you are in a club, for example, there are a bunch of alpha males running around doing their thing. When they bump into each other, there is no need for them to bump heads as they can usually both accept the fact that they are dealing with a relative equal and let it go at that. Sure, they might get into some kind of competition like who can drink more, who can get the hottest girl, but there is no reason to assume they will get into a physical altercation.

Because there are many alpha males in any given situation, there are many choices for women. They can sit back and have their pick of which alpha they want. For more timid men, this is bad news. If there were only one alpha, just by sheer numbers there would be lot’s of other women that would settle for less confident guys. But since there are many alphas around, you almost have to be one if you want to get a beautiful women to take an interest in you.       (Continued)