Try Attracting Women The Right Way
There are many stages to a relationship.
There is the initial contact, dating, monogamy (maybe) and an infinite number of other interactions that are predictable and yet still confusing. Underlying all these stages is attraction. The skill of attracting women is one that will be used no matter what stage of a relationship you are in. It is one of the most important skills for men to have as far as dating goes.
We are attracted to men for a variety of reasons. There are some things about particular men that will attract certain women. For example, I am into writing, and find it attractive when men are passionate about some creative field such as writing or painting. But this does not mean that I only date writers and artists.
That’s because no matter what specific things are attractive to a particular woman, there are some general things that attract almost all women. These are things that we are, for lack of a better word, programmed to be attracted to by our DNA. Luckily for you guys, many of these things can be learned.
One of the things that can help you with attracting women is grooming. Your grooming includes your hygiene but also how you style your hair and wear your facial hair.
Why is this important?
I am honestly not sure, but can tell you that all women care about it. Now, this does not mean that you need to be a clean-cut, CEO-looking type. Rather, it means that your grooming needs to match your overall persona. If you are a rocker dude, then fine, wear your hair long and don’t shave all the time. If you are the sensitive artist type, then fine, you can have a goatee or whatever. Keep in mind that, under virtually no circumstances is it OK to have poor hygiene, meaning dirty fingernails, bad breath, body odor.
If you are clean, and have a style that matches your personality you have gone a long way towards attracting women. The next thing you should work on is building up your persona a bit more. A cohesive persona allows you to project confidence to women. We can see that you have things to do, that you have goals to achieve.
This is attractive.
Think about it from our perspective. I have a job, I have goals, and I have dreams. I’m working on making my vision come true.
How could I be attracted to a man who doesn’t even know what he wants out of life?
Ambitious women want men who are their equals. If you want to attract women you need to have a life of your own that is filled with worthwhile goals and projects. This shows us that you are a confident and serious man.
Being able to attract women is a skill that will serve you well throughout your life. While there are many tactics you can try to use to attract us, the best way to do it is by spending time working on yourself.
Sammy Tucker wrote:
I really like this post. You really give a basic approach to attracting a woman. I have a similar article at my site. You should check it out. Maybe we can compare notes and make for some awesome blogging.
Posted on 15-Nov-11 at 9:24 am | Permalink